Abuse in the LGBTQIA+ Community

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Research shows that LGBTQIA+ members experience domestic violence at equal or higher rates compared to their heterosexual counterparts (NCACV). Along with the cultural barriers, LGBTQIA+ survivors of South Asian descent face unique risks including: 

 

  • “Outing” or threatening to reveal one partner’s sexual orientation/gender identity may be used as a tool of abuse and may also reduce the survivor’s likelihood to seek help.

 

  • Prior experiences of physical or psychological trauma, such as bullying and hate crimes, may make LGBTQIA+ survivors less likely to seek help.

  • South Asian cultural taboos against identifying as LGBTQIA+ may keep survivors silenced or may result in harm from their family

  • Abusers may using offensive pronouns such as “it” to refer to transgender survivors

  • Abusers may ridicule transgender survivors’ bodies, appearances, or identities

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What does LGBTQIA+ Stand for:

 

  • Lesbian - female-identified people attracted romantically and/or emotionally to other female-identified people

  • Gay -  used to describe a number of things, including the LGBTQIA+ community as a whole, a single individual who does not identify as straight, and men who are attracted to other men in a romantic and/or emotional sense.

  • Bisexual - typically defined as someone who is attracted to people of their gender and other genders

  • Transgender - umbrella term used for people whose gender identity and/or gender expression differs from what is typically associated with the sex they were assigned at birth.

  • Queer or Questioning - Q in the acronymn has two meanings​​

    • Questioning - Non-heterosexual people who are still "questioning" their place within the queer community—whether that means that they are still unsure of their sexual orientation or gender identity

    • Queer - Often used as a blanket term to define the sexual preferences, orientations, and habits of the not-exclusively-heterosexual-and-monogamous majority

  • Intersex - people who are born with reproductive or sexual anatomy that doesn't fit the typical definitions of male and female

  • Asexual - those who do not feel a sexual attraction to others. Asexual people can often be romantically attracted to someone, but sexual attraction doesn't play a role in the relationship.

  • Plus (+) - used to symbolize and explain a number of different gender identities and sexual orientations that are not already present in the lettered acronym.

Sources: University of Illinois, Springfield's Gender and Sexuality Services, GLAAD, Bisexual Resource Center, Rainbow Welcome Initiative, Intersex Society of North America